fear of masturbation how to over come it?
Friday, October 2nd, 2009 at
4:36 pm
Sam0_0 asked:
Like that, here the thing is, I wà ¼ nschte, I könnte it does, but I fà ¼ hle so dirtily and the guilty ones also try me. when I was more nger jà ¼, as in the Gespräch small child age my mother me fà ¼ r her the whole time and said itself, I was POS and went into the Hölle. shes also the same Mrs., those had Sex, if I had friends à ¼ more ber the expenditures of the night and no genuine moral fà ¼ r it had. they close me in my bed room, so that they have Sex könnte and its not always so, as them care for, if she were awake à ¼ more ber me or not. it was times had I to crawlen from my window on only Pee in the center of the night…. beside the number it me fear, and I möchte, over à ¼ more ber her and in the layer its too genieà EN Masturbation. my ex-boyfriends to ask to cry me that they want to make it and it tend wà ¼ rde me wà ¼, then because I spà ¼ rte, as I was not well enough fà ¼ r them. then it has to handle too much, and I at the end against with all of them the à ¼ more ber it. I had Sex with them so often only, so that they do not do wà ¼ rde that, but it never functions. in pathetic which I know. so now with the man in in the love also, and he stands for me not enough, but in such a way the ängstlich that he the whole time. the kicker is… I now here did, which I gladly see, before we have Sex, have we to the local Porno shop bought and to toy fà ¼ r everyone of us. more masterbater a männliche and a männliche G spots toy, 3 different Dildos in witch is too small, groà and the latter only doesnt the trick. fà ¼ r it well, so that in the ground play, he gets toy its work off and that is the end. adhesive in horny with nothing. he loves me still enough, over with me plays, but it doesnt Gefà ¼ hl, if HES no more in the tendency, so that you deactivate one groà e. so that I again gedrà ¼ ckt, in this sense please I did not want him however in the earth. so that we tryed Sex more später in the night, and i couldnt even an orgasm. so it and I had few nothing.i clit orgasems however I wants a genuine g locally. it makes that my legs schà ¼ tteln, as it was frà ¼ the case ago. only my ex do könnte, but it was more chronically more masterbater so didnt work out. the worst part is this to even stimulate can I me. I have this Flash Rà ¼ cken sexual all this inclined ran, those in my life, and it breaks out me in Tränen. in sorry I am so confused and helpless, or perhaps TMI fà ¼ r some, but that is me makes really depressive.
Like that, here the thing is, I wà ¼ nschte, I könnte it does, but I fà ¼ hle so dirtily and the guilty ones also try me. when I was more nger jà ¼, as in the Gespräch small child age my mother me fà ¼ r her the whole time and said itself, I was POS and went into the Hölle. shes also the same Mrs., those had Sex, if I had friends à ¼ more ber the expenditures of the night and no genuine moral fà ¼ r it had. they close me in my bed room, so that they have Sex könnte and its not always so, as them care for, if she were awake à ¼ more ber me or not. it was times had I to crawlen from my window on only Pee in the center of the night…. beside the number it me fear, and I möchte, over à ¼ more ber her and in the layer its too genieà EN Masturbation. my ex-boyfriends to ask to cry me that they want to make it and it tend wà ¼ rde me wà ¼, then because I spà ¼ rte, as I was not well enough fà ¼ r them. then it has to handle too much, and I at the end against with all of them the à ¼ more ber it. I had Sex with them so often only, so that they do not do wà ¼ rde that, but it never functions. in pathetic which I know. so now with the man in in the love also, and he stands for me not enough, but in such a way the ängstlich that he the whole time. the kicker is… I now here did, which I gladly see, before we have Sex, have we to the local Porno shop bought and to toy fà ¼ r everyone of us. more masterbater a männliche and a männliche G spots toy, 3 different Dildos in witch is too small, groà and the latter only doesnt the trick. fà ¼ r it well, so that in the ground play, he gets toy its work off and that is the end. adhesive in horny with nothing. he loves me still enough, over with me plays, but it doesnt Gefà ¼ hl, if HES no more in the tendency, so that you deactivate one groà e. so that I again gedrà ¼ ckt, in this sense please I did not want him however in the earth. so that we tryed Sex more später in the night, and i couldnt even an orgasm. so it and I had few nothing.i clit orgasems however I wants a genuine g locally. it makes that my legs schà ¼ tteln, as it was frà ¼ the case ago. only my ex do könnte, but it was more chronically more masterbater so didnt work out. the worst part is this to even stimulate can I me. I have this Flash Rà ¼ cken sexual all this inclined ran, those in my life, and it breaks out me in Tränen. in sorry I am so confused and helpless, or perhaps TMI fà ¼ r some, but that is me makes really depressive.
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You have made it quite clear that your parents made you afraid of masturbation. I think most people are afraid of masturbation because it makes them feel guilty. I think to overcome your guilt and fear you have to experience it and understand it. Understand why you feel guilty and afraid.
I think it is interesting that you left your old boyfriends because they masturbate, and yet you want to be able to masturbate yourself. It seems that you take boyfriends masturbating as a personal offense. Is it because it makes you feel worthless, or because you are envious that they can masturbate without feeling as you do?
I guess it would be important to point out that most people masturbate. There is nothing wrong with it. It is not cheating on your partner or anything. In fact, studies have shown that people who masturbate have more sex and better sex than people who don’t. Masturbation is often important for women, because it teaches them what pleases them the most and and how to experience an orgasm to the fullest.
I think I would recommend that you work your way to masturbation. It seems you can have sex with your boyfriend, so instead of him penetrating you, you could have him use his hands to pleasure you instead. If you are comfortable with that, use your hand to pleasure yourself as he pleasures you. Once you feel comfortable with that, just pleasure yourself in his presence. Maybe have him caressing or kiss the rest of your body as you do it. Once you feel like you can do that, I would have him become less and less involved in your self pleasuring until his presence is no longer required.
Also a therapist, specifically a sex therapist would be very helpful. I think the MOST important thing in this all really is your historical family issues. I think they are the root cause of your problems and it is important to address them.